What's the first sign that someone is going to use you?
Night Pulse with Msizi and Bolele on 947 · 30 June 2025 · 5m
Speaker 1: Life. Speaker 2: I always thought I was a good judge of character. M last week I realized Speaker 2: that nahna wrong, got it completely wrong. But the thing is, there were signs. There Speaker 2: were signs, and I just ignored the signs. I guess because I just really wanted Speaker 2: to here's my problem. I really just always want to believe in people so much. Speaker 1: Exactly, and that they're trying to get close to you for the right reason exactly. Speaker 2: And that's exactly the problem that I found myself facing a person, you know, just Speaker 2: like being overly nice. That was the first red flag, and I was just like, Speaker 2: okay, but hey man, they probably just a nice person. Let me just give them Speaker 2: a shot. Oh yeah, no, give me a number, Like let's hook her for lunch Speaker 2: and okay, cool, y'all, let's look up for lunch. And now suddenly you were chapping Speaker 2: on whats app for things that don't even make sense. But you're just trying to Speaker 2: keep relationships going until a person then makes a request that is outright using you. Speaker 1: There's signs, right, And I guess that's the question is that when do you know Speaker 1: or what are the tailtale signs of like this person just wants something for me Speaker 1: exactly because we're all going to be conscious of that exactly because that's in your Speaker 1: position in life. Speaker 3: It's like, you're just gonna be wary. What what is it that they actually are Speaker 3: after? Speaker 2: Especially in this dan age man like, sometimes people are just moving so weirdly. So
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